The example begins at home

Other forms of verbal abuse

First of all I would like to  share this video with you all because it is a clear example of the damage we do to our loved ones. The example starts at home.

Trivialize can also be a form of verbal abuse. It is an attempt to take something that has been said or done and make it insignificant. When this is done in a frank and sincere, can be difficult to detect. Often the partner becomes confused and believes he has not effectively explained to his companion the importance of some things for her.Undermining is also verbal abuse. The abuser not only withholds emotional support but also erodes confidence and determination. The abuser often crush an idea or suggestion with one comment.Threatening is a classic form of verbal abuse. Manipulates his partner doing that arise in it their greatest fears. This may include threat to leave or divorce. In some cases, the threat may escalate the abuse.Insult can also be verbal abuse. Continuously call someone "stupid" because it is not as smart as one and call it "stupid" because it is so much coordination can have a devastating effect on self-esteem of the couple.Verbal abuse may also involve neglect. This can involve both overt and covert manipulation. Everyone forgets things from time to time, but the verbal abuser does consistently. When the couple had calmed down after receiving the cries of the abuser, and confronts his friend, he finds that he has "forgotten" the incident. Some abusers forget promises they have made are of great importance to their partners.Order is another classic form of verbal abuse. Denied equality and autonomy of the couple. When an abuser gives orders instead of asking the question as a slave or subordinate.Denial is the last category of verbal abuse. While all forms of verbal abuse have serious consequences, denial can be very insidious because it denies the reality of the couple. In fact, a verbal abuser could read this list of categories and insist that is not abusive.Therefore it is very important for the couple to recognize these characteristics and categories, because the abuser often takes an attitude of denial. Therefore, the responsibility for recognizing verbal abuse and do something about it often rest on the couple.

Some Examples of Verbal Abuse

After reading many websites with reference to verbal abuse including divorcesupport.about.com I can say that the perpetrator consciously or unconsciously by uncertainty about self-esteem to the abused very low, often with phrases that sound common but have a two meanings.
  Here are some examples that may sound familiar.

* "Today the food if you stay well"
* "You have to go out, you have lost nothing in the street "
* "If you want to leave go, but the children stay with me"
* "You were here all day and do not cook anything, definitely you never do anything"
* "This fashion is not for bodies like yours"
* "You're no good for anything"

 

What is verbal abuse?

Domestic violence should not be attributed solely to the female sex. This demonstrated that men and women can be abused in the same way. There are abused men and abused women.

According to the website psicologiauag9.wordpress.com We know that violence is a behavior that causes or may cause physical or psychological harm to other beings. How is believed that a person is violent? When that person is unreasonable and refuses to talk in a civilized manner and will not listen to act irresponsibly.

There are several types of violence such as physical violence, psychological, and sexual abuse.

Let's focus on psychological violence. What is the psychological violence? And how is it detected?

It is quite true that violence is irrational and uncivilized act that should not even exist today, but when we talk about psychological violence is a bit more complicated to detect because this is not shown nor hitting, pushing, injuries etc.

Psychological violence manifests itself through harsh words, insults, humiliation, shouts and insults. You can get to devalue, ignore, or frighten a person through words or attitudes and this is known as psychological abuse